David Mitchell
Joe,
My life-long buddy, Tom Litzinger died a few years ago now, from complications of several conditions - according to young Doctor Thomas Lizinger, his (rather famous) son. We made mention of Tom's passing here on the Forum at the time.
I think it is long enough ago to openly explain what he shared of his main health issue - a very serious case of manic depression. Back around 1984 or so, I bought him a plane ticket to visit us in Denver. He had been seperated (or divorced by then) from Mary (the other Mary Margaret Clark - Watterson '67) and was giving up the real estate business he inherited from his mother.
After a few days with my wife and kids (including a Bronco game) we headed out for about a 4 day treck into the mountains - Steamboat, then down to Aspen, and on down to Tellurid to visit my other best friend, another Tom from a farm near Circleville, Ohio - then a new real estate broker in Telluride (a job I had talked him into where I began my real estate career). While driving, Tom and I talked and talked and talked.
Tom got very open with me and gave me a first-hand detailed account of his condition. It was both eye-opening, and frightening. But we had some wonderful shared hours as we drove. We got back home a day before his flight, then I drove him out to old Stapleton Airport and waited with him in the terminal. I started saying something about how great the week had been and he gave me a response that caught me completely by surpprise and scared me to death. He said "Yeah, maybe too good." I asked him what he meant and he said, "I was having such a good time I decided not to take my medicine" (Lithium).
He had explained to me the irony the condition - that one goes through these great emotional "swings" (his word) of up and then down, and that lithium helped to even that out. But the problem was that when you were on an "up", you didn't feel like you needed the medicine so you skip taking it, and in a few days without it, you drop into these horrible lows that bring about terrible behaviors - including violence.
About two days later, my dad called. He asked "Have you talked to your buddy Tom since he came home?"
I said "No, why?"
Dad said, "Well, I just was with him at the hospital and he's in pretty bad shape".
Tom had gone through a nightmare "low swing", tearing up an old house he was renovating down on campus, including throwing his bicycle out of a second story window where it landed on a cop walking by. Tom had also done some serious personal injury - thus the reason for the emergency room visit. I was dumbstruck! And felt a horrible sense of guilt.
There is a lot more that happend in the following years that I will spare you - some of it involving his good buddies Steve Royer, Steve Polis, Kevin Ryan, and others. Through it all he still always had one "gaurdian angel", his youngest brother Danny, who was there to "resue" him (take him to a hospital) on numerous occasions.
After moving back to Columbus, I had several more frighttening episodes with him that drove us apart - at his request! I moved to So. Carolina and had no contact for years. But when I came up for the 50th (a magic night for most of us). On teh following day (Sunday) Keith Groff and I drove over to visit him at his apartment in that housing and care facility on Old Henderson road. The three of us had about an hour together and it was simply wonderful! We reminisced, we teased each other, and we laughed. When Keith and I got back in Keith's car, I could not hold back the tears.
On my next visti (maybe that 70th Birtday party at Janie's condo?) I had arranged with young doctor Thomas to go to dinner with his dad and Keith - a perfect foursome. But a day or two before that night, young Thomas called to say his dad was not feeling good enough to go out, so we cancelled.
I beleive Tom died shorty therafter, and I was devastated!
Young Thomas called soon after to explain that his dad suffered from three related conditions - all stemming from the depression.
Since about age 4, peeking back and forth at one another between the pews in our old OLP quonset hut church, I never knew a more likable guy.
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