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10/18/24 11:54 AM #14499    

 

Michael McLeod

I am going to post this and then put myself on probation because I am hogging the forum, and frankly, I don’t know how many people are reading our ramblings anyway. But my compulsion as a writer is too great to pass up the chance to – first, share with you that wonderful experience I had in my back yard, and second, share this essay in the nytimes that is the best explanation I have seen so far of where we stand, politically, at this moment in our history. I especially like the quote in the sixth paragraph. As a journalist interviewing experts for decades I came to value quotations I would gather from experts so I could sprinkle my stories with words much better than any I could invent. And the quote in that paragraph sums up our current political situation perfectly, much as the truth of it grieves me. I was hoping we'd leave the world better than we found it. In a way we have. In a way we haven't.  You could make the case that this is the most irrational political atmosphere of our lives. I am not taking sides in making that statement, and I do not think the writer of this nytimes essay is, either.

Again, I’m putting myself in a self imposed timeout for a stretch. Chat away as you will.


 

 

By David Brooks

Opinion Columnist

Two big things baffle me about this election. The first is: Why are the polls so immobile? In mid-June the race between President Biden and Donald Trump was neck and neck. Since then, we’ve had a blizzard of big events, and still the race is basically where it was in June. It started out tied and has only gotten closer.

We supposedly live in a country in which a plurality of voters are independents. You’d think they’d behave, well, independently and get swayed by events. But no. In our era the polling numbers barely move.

The second thing that baffles me is: Why has politics been 50-50 for over a decade? We’ve had big shifts in the electorate, college-educated voters going left and non-college-educated voters going right. But still, the two parties are almost exactly evenly matched.

This is not historically normal. Usually we have one majority party that has a big vision for the country, and then we have a minority party that tries to poke holes in that vision. (In the 1930s the Democrats dominated with the New Deal, and the Republicans complained. In the 1980s the Reagan revolution dominated, and the Democrats tried to adjust.)

But today neither party has been able to expand its support to create that kind of majority coalition. As the American Enterprise Institute scholars Ruy Teixeira and Yuval Levin note in a new study, “Politics Without Winners,” we have two parties playing the role of minority party: “Each party runs campaigns focused almost entirely on the faults of the other, with no serious strategy for significantly broadening its electoral reach.”

Teixeira and Levin observe that both parties are content to live with deadlock. The parties, they write, “have prioritized the wishes of their most intensely devoted voters — who would never vote for the other party — over the priorities of winnable voters who could go either way.” Both parties “treat narrow victories like landslides and wave away narrow defeats, somehow seeing both as confirmation of their existing strategies.”

Trump has spent the past nine years not even trying to expand his base but just playing to the same MAGA grievances over and over again. Kamala Harris refuses to break with Biden on any significant issue and is running as a paint-by-numbers orthodox Democrat. Neither party tolerates much ideological diversity. Neither party has a plausible strategy to build a durable majority coalition. Why?

I think the reason for all this is that political parties no longer serve the function they used to. In days gone by, parties were political organizations designed to win elections and gain power. Party leaders would expand their coalitions toward that end. Today, on the other hand, in an increasingly secular age, political parties are better seen as religious organizations that exist to provide believers with meaning, membership and moral sanctification. If that’s your purpose, of course you have to stick to the existing gospel. You have to focus your attention on affirming the creed of the current true believers. You get so buried within the walls of your own catechism, you can’t even imagine what it would be like to think outside it.

When parties were primarily political organizations, they were led by elected officials and party bosses. Now that parties are more like quasi-religions, power lies with priesthood — the dispersed array of media figures, podcast hosts and activists who run the conversation, define party orthodoxy and determine the boundaries of acceptable belief.

Let’s look at the Democratic Party. The Democrats have huge advantages in America today. Unlike their opponents, they are not a threat to democracy. Voters trust them on issues like health care and are swinging their way on issues like abortion. They have a great base from which to potentially expand their coalition and build their majority. All they have to do is address their weaknesses, the places where they are out of step with most Americans.

The problem is that where you find their weaknesses, there you find the priesthood. The public conversation on the Democratic side of things is dominated by highly educated urban progressives who work in academia, the media, the activist groups and so on. These folks have a highly developed and self-confident worldview — a comprehensive critique of American society. The only problem is that this worldview is rejected by most Americans, who don’t share the critique. The more the Democrats embrace the priesthood’s orthodoxy, the more it loses working-class voters, including Hispanic and Black working-class voters.

For example, the progressive priesthood, quite admirably, is committed to fighting racial oppression. Its members believe that the way to do that is to be hyperaware of racial categories — in the diversity, equity and inclusion way — in order to rearrange preferences to support historically oppressed groups.

Most Americans also seek to fight racism, but they seek to do it in a different way. Their goal is to reduce the salience of racial categories so that people’s talents and initiative determine their life outcomes. According to a 2022 University of Southern California survey of Americans, 92 percent of respondents agreed with this statement: “Our goal as a society should be to treat all people the same without regard to the color of their skin.” Which is why only a third of Americans in a recent Pew Research Center survey said they supported using race as a factor in college admissions.

Or take energy. Most members of the Democratic clerisy are properly alarmed by climate change and believe we should rapidly shift from fossil fuels. Liberal white college graduates favor eliminating fossil fuels by two to one. It’s no skin off their teeth; they work on laptops.

But if you live in Oklahoma or work in an industry that runs on oil, coal or natural gas, this idea seems like an assault on your way of life, which, of course, it is. An overwhelming 72 percent of Americans favor an all-of-the-above approach, relying on both renewables and traditional energy sources.

Or take immigration. Highly educated white progressives tend to see the immigration and asylum issue through the lens of oppressor and oppressed: The people coming across our border are fleeing horror in their home countries. But most Americans see immigration through a law-and-order lens: We need to control our boundaries, preserve social order and take care of our own. In a June CBS survey 62 percent of Americans, including 53 percent of Hispanics, said they supported a program to deport undocumented immigrants — the most extreme version of this approach.

On these, as on so many other issues, the position that is held by a vast majority of Americans is unsayable in highly educated progressive circles. The priesthood has established official doctrine, and woe to anyone who contradicts it.

The Republicans have exactly the same dynamic, except their priesthood is dominated by shock jocks, tech bros and Christian nationalists, some of whom are literally members of the priesthood.

Harris clearly understands the problem. She has tried to run her campaign to show she is in tune with majority opinions. In a classic 2018 More in Common report, only 45 percent of the most liberal group in the survey said they were proud to be American. But Harris festooned her convention with patriotic symbols to the rafters. She’s now explicitly running on the theme: country before party.

But in just the few months she has had to campaign, Harris can’t turn around the Democratic Party’s entire identity. Plus, her gestures have all been stylistic; she hasn’t challenged Democratic orthodoxy on any substantive issue. Finally, candidates no longer have the ultimate power over what the party stands for. The priesthood — the people who dominate the national conversation — has the power.

The result is that each party has its own metaphysics. Each party is no longer just a political organism; it is a political-cultural-religious-class entity that organizes the social, moral and psychological lives of its believers.

Each party’s metaphysic seems to grow more rigid and impermeable as time goes by. Sometimes it seems that Harris is running not to be president of the United States but to be president of a theme park called Democratic Magic Mountain, while Trump is running to be president of Republican Fantasy Island. Each party has become too narcissistic to get outside its own head and try to build a coalition with people outside the camp of true believers.

The political problem for Harris is that there are a lot more Americans without a college degree than with one. Class is growing more salient in American life, with Hispanic and Black working-class voters shifting steadily over to the working-class party, the G.O.P.

The problem for Trump is that he is even better at repelling potential converts than the Democrats. He’d be winning landslides if he had tried to wedge MAGA Republicans into a coalition with Bush-McCain Republicans, but he’s incapable of that.

The problem for the rest of us is that we’re locked into this perpetual state of suspended animation in which the two parties are deadlocked and nothing ever changes. I keep running into people who are rooting for divided government for the next four years. It will mean that America will be able to do little to solve its problems. They see this as the least bad option.


10/18/24 12:31 PM #14500    

 

James Hamilton, M. D.

Mike McL.,

I had just sat down to read our morning newspaper and, as always, check the Message Forum on our class website.

I really enjoy how you can take a simple morning experience with your local backyard biosphere, describe the beauty and the feeling of being among the hummingbirds, flora and the post-storm atmospheric conditions and put them into words.

As I plucked the paper from our driveway I was greeted by a grazing 8-point buck in the nextdoor neighbor's yard. Luckily there were no female deer on the other side of me which could have made the buck consider me a challenge.

We both seem to enjoy our morning contacts with the biologic world and I only wish I could put them into words as well as you can.

Keep up those good stories as they are much needed in these chaotic times!

Jim

 


10/18/24 02:20 PM #14501    

 

David Mitchell

Mike,

Brooks is usually pretty, interesting but with my aging span of attention, I could use a "cliff's notes" version. 

(more specific question on your private email)


10/18/24 02:21 PM #14502    

 

Mary Margaret Clark (Schultheis)

Thank you Mike for posting such a poignant reminder to enjoy the simple gifts of life....a comfortable home, having family nearby, and watching nature at its best and its worst.

My kids keep urging me to sell the 2 story home, just across the Wahalla Ravine where I have lived for 46 years, and move into a ranch-style home. I politely resist because I enjoy the memories this old house revives as well as the memories that are still being made. I enjoy sitting on the swing on my front porch that looks out onto busy Weber Rd. and the ravine beyond. As I have always proclaimed myself to be a city" girl so it is that I rather enjoy watching the traffic whiz by, or hearing the sounds of emergency vehicles speeding past, or the whistle of the nightly trains as they approach the intersection of I-71 and Weber Rd. There are always people walking past the house with their kids and/or their dogs in tow, students clamoring by after 3 PM when the former Crestview.school releases them for the day, and during the summer I can hear the cheers coming from the baseball field across from the school, where I spent many hours watching my own kids play.

The neighborhood has remained fairly stable over all this time, although the demograhics have somewhat changed in that I am now the "oldie" on the block!  I feel blessed to have had two friendly young couples purchase homes on either side of me over the past several years which is another comforting reason that I choose to stay where I am.  

All of these are indications for me that, despite the passage of time and despite all of the changes and losses endured throughtout the years, and despite today's uncertainties and challenges...outside my doors...I have a constant, reassuring reminder that life goes on. 


10/18/24 02:37 PM #14503    

 

Janie Albright (Blank)

In response to Mike's comment about how many are looking at the Forum I checked and there have been 43 different classmates looking at it in last 30 days and almost 70 in 2024. We have 158 who have joined the website so I think that's a strong showing. Obviously many are just lurkers like my photo shows me doing and don't comment. We'd like for you lurkers to make the occasional comment.

 smileylaugh


10/18/24 02:41 PM #14504    

 

David Mitchell

Off the subject -- waaaay off that subject

Did anyone happen to see the end of the Ohio State, Oregon game last weekend? (I only saw this on replays and seperate sports news items.)  

(No, not the joke about wanting to watch a "track meet" and football game broke out.)

But something quite interesting occurred that certainly closed the door in Ohio State's face, and caused huge controversy. Oregon deliberately put a 12th defensive player on the field in those last few moments - knowing it was illegal. Their thinking (and correctly so) was that it would risk a 5 yard penalty (which would not hurt that much at that location on the field), but would also waste precious seconds on the clock. It worked, but then followed a big controversy about the play. It was the loss of 5 seconds on the clock that was so beneficial to Oregon. Ohio State simply ran out of time. One more play after that QB run would have likely been a winning feild goal, but the clock had run out.

I believe the NCAA (or some governing body) looked at it and has already ruled that the clock should be reset in favor of the offensive team. It seems only fair - but it's a bit to late for this game. I guess it's quite rare for a rule change to occur withing the same season as the infraction.


10/18/24 08:13 PM #14505    

 

James Hamilton, M. D.

MM, (and all who are dealing with such things)

I hear you loud and clear. As I mentioned in a previous post, a house is a place for your "stuff" but a home is where you store your memories. 

Downsizing is difficult, but moving to a new house (or apartment, townhome or condo) is worse and more traumatic. Struggling with that decision may become necessary at some point - perhaps sooner than later - for many of us and that is certainly true for myself and Janet. 

Perhaps the biggest decision for us will be â€‹â€‹â€‹â€‹â€‹â€‹where that will be: Colorado or back to Ohio. There are pros and cons for each as we have no family here but Janet has many family members back there.

Prayerfully, God will guide us to make the right choices and all will fall into place.

Jim

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10/18/24 08:46 PM #14506    

 

Michael McLeod

Ok I know I promised to shut up for a while but Mary Margaret! Walhalla! I never knew that you lived there, or even close to there. Even though you aren't smack in the middle of the ravine I am jealous. The charm and mystery and beauty of that shady, quasi-cavernous retreat was one of the fascinations of my childhood. I don't know how everybody else felt about it when we were Clintonville kids but from my limited perspective of the world at large back then walhalla was the equavalent of having Mammoth Cave just a few short blocks from my house. In winter. It was our own personal Eisriensenwelt  (which is, showing off my journalistic skill of looking up stuff in encylopedias and sticking it in the middle of a story,  the largest ice cave in the world, filled with 65 feet high ice structures -- plus having a typically multisyllabic German name that leaves you out of breath even before you visit the damn place if you say it out loud.I'm German on my mother's side, by the way)  Anyway, call me naive but to a kid like me in wintertime Columbus back in the day, Walhalla was a midwestern Eisriensenwelt, a wonder of the world just a few blocks down. But of course this was back in a time when a trip to Centerburg to visit my grandparents was a breathtaking expedition. I'm a bit more sophisticated now.These days you'd have to take me as far as, say, Indianapolis to blow me away. 

From one mm to another mm, wishing you strength and wisdom with your tough decision. 

 

 


10/19/24 02:18 PM #14507    

 

David Mitchell

Jim,   

I feel your "pain".  Downsizing is hard. 

Realizing we are much closer to the end than we are to the beginning is even harder. I am "gifting" stuff to my kids, selling stuff on eBay, donating to my church "re-sell store", or just plain throwing it away are the things I spend much of my time at lately. I am having a hard time parting with stuff. I think it's like removing parts of me and my life.

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Mike, 

Ditto for my wonderful winding, hilly, wooded kingdom of Overbrook/Yaronia. What a fabulous place to grow up in - a wooded creek with cliffs and vines to swing on - a big front yard and about 8 guys within 2 years of me to use that front yard for baseball and football - and a big driveway for basketball - or all of the above for all of us to play "hide-and-seek" in. Or just hang out in the street until after dark with no worries about our safety - until our Moms called us home.


10/19/24 02:52 PM #14508    

 

James Hamilton, M. D.

Mike and Dave,

So happy to see you writing about those gorgeous ravines in Clintonville!

Many times I have posted text and photos of these Columbus gems on this Forum since almost every trip I make back there includes a visit to them. John Denver sang about "the serenity of a clear blue mountain lake" but the serenity and beauty of these ravines always is a must for me and I have introduced them to some of Janet's family who were enthralled and amazed that such places exist in the city just off High Street.

If you have not delved into their history you should, and the Internet has a lot of their stories to tell. Just search for "Ravines of Clintontville" 

Jim


10/19/24 06:13 PM #14509    

 

Mark Schweickart

Although I did not grow up near the Walhalla Ravine, these last few posts have certainly tugged at my nostalgic heartstrings. I was similarly struck by Mary Chapin Carpenter's song "Stones in the Road," when I first heard it some years ago. And although, she is youngeer than us (as evidenced by the verse about being on her Dad's shoulders as she watched RFK's funeral train pass by) the rest of the song's imagery certainly carried me back to those carefree days of childhood. I know I posted my version of her song here several years ago, but it seems especially appropriate to the discussion today, as we all, no doubt, can still "hear a voice from across the lawn, calling us home."



 


10/20/24 06:36 AM #14510    

 

Michael McLeod

wow. thanks Marq. What a great metaphor in those lyrics - the notion of calling to us from across the lawn, in a voice that carries through time as well as space.

And Jim: My memories of the ravines elsewhere in Columbus are vague. There was/is a network of them off Cook Road, right? Near Watterson? East of Watterson. And elsewhere? Near campus? It's all fuzzy to me. Getting fuzzier. I was recently diagnosed with Alzheimer's. What a horrible frigging disease. Plus it's fatal. Fun times.


10/20/24 07:08 AM #14511    

 

Michael McLeod

OK I AM BACK TO MY EVIL WAYS OF HOGGING THE FORUM BUT I HAD TO SHARE THIS. IT EXPLAINS AN AFFLICTION OF THE COUNTRY WE ALL LOVE AND A HORRIBLE ZEITGEIST THAT IS AFFLICTING IT: (and to double back to my german heritage on my mother's side, "zeit" means time and "geist" means spirit or ghost, so you can thank us krauts for coming up with a very useful word, which simply means the overall atmosphere of a particular history era, such as the appropriate named "roaring twenties." 1920s, that is. Our current 20s era, the 2020s, don't have such a fun nickname, do they? I'd call them the bitchy twenties at this point, but I don't think the term would catch on. )

 


By David French

Opinion Columnist

Few things can change your perspective for the better more than being attacked from both sides of America’s culture war.

If you think the left is uniquely intolerant, how do you process right-wing censorship? Or if you think the right is uniquely prone to political violence, how do you process far-left riots? When faced with similar behavior from one side or the other, hard-core partisans retreat to specious comparisons. They comfort themselves with the idea that no matter how bad their own tribe might be, the other side is worse.

But there’s a different perspective. Remove yourself from a partisan team, and you can more clearly see that human nature is driving American conflict just as much, if not more, than ideological divisions.

I had that exact thought when I read my newsroom colleague Nicholas Confessore’s masterful and comprehensive report in The New York Times Magazine on the failure of the University of Michigan’s huge investment in diversity, equity and inclusion.

There are two troubling components to his story. The first is found in the bottom-line results of the university’s D.E.I. program. In spite of spending staggering sums of money, hiring scores of diversity administrators and promulgating countless new policies, the efforts failed. Michigan still hasn’t come close to becoming as diverse as it wants to be. Black students, for example, are stuck at around 4 to 5 percent of the undergraduate population in a state where 14 percent of the residents are Black.

The second is that those ineffective policies were promulgated and enforced in part through a campus culture that was remarkably intolerant. Confessore’s report is replete with examples of professors who faced frivolous complaints of race or gender bias, and after Hamas’s terrorist attack on Oct. 7 — when the university’s commitments to pluralism were put to their toughest test — Michigan couldn’t meet even its most basic legal obligations.

In a June news release announcing the resolution of two civil rights complaints against the university for antisemitism, the U.S. Department of Education said that it “found no evidence that the university complied with its Title VI requirements to assess whether incidents individually or cumulatively created a hostile environment for students, faculty or staff.” The school also did not “take steps reasonably calculated to end the hostile environment, remedy its effects and prevent its recurrence.”

In spite of immense expenditures intended to foster a climate of inclusion on campus, Jewish students could not even count on their school to comply with the law. The school couldn’t cross the lowest possible bar of acceptable behavior.

If I’d read Confessore’s story 15 years ago, when I was litigating free speech cases on campus, I would have had a simple response — there goes the campus left again, intolerant and ineffective.

After all, I’d directly experienced a version of that intolerance in my own life and work. I was shouted down more than once by far-left peers in law school, and much of my legal career was dedicated to responding to what we’d now call D.E.I. excesses — instances where diversity efforts infringed on free speech, religious liberty and due process.

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But in 2024, I have a different thought. I have seen and endured right-wing institutions engaging in the same (and sometimes much worse) intolerance as left-wing institutions. When I wrote about my own recent cancellation at the hands of my former denomination, I was flooded with hundreds of personal emails relating similar stories. Even the smallest deviations from the required right-wing orthodoxies were being met with a withering response in conservative churches and conservative religious organizations across America.

To understand what’s happening here, let’s turn back to Confessore’s Michigan report. He wrote that the growing D.E.I. bureaucracies “represented a major — and profoundly left-leaning — reshuffling of campus power.” University faculty members lean far to the left, yet “administrators were even more politically liberal than faculty members, according to one survey, and far more likely to favor racial preferences in admissions and hiring.”

In other words, the campus D.E.I. bureaucracy was attempting to address an almost impossibly difficult and important task from within an ideological monoculture. It was doomed to fail, and it was doomed to fail in toxic ways.

It’s not because the D.E.I. bureaucracy is leftist. It’s because it’s full of human beings. It’s a fact of human nature that when like-minded people gather, they tend to become more extreme. This concept — called the law of group polarization — applies across ideological and institutional lines. The term was most clearly defined and popularized in a 1999 paper by Cass Sunstein. The law of group polarization, according to Sunstein, “helps to explain extremism, ‘radicalization,’ cultural shifts and the behavior of political parties and religious organizations.”

In my experience, the more ideologically or theologically “pure” an institution becomes, the more wrong it is likely to be, especially if it takes on a difficult or complex task. Ideological monocultures aren’t just bad for the minority that’s silenced, harassed or canceled whenever its members raise their voices in dissent. It’s terrible for the confident majority — and for the confident majority’s cause.

I’m currently teaching a college class called “Why Is American Politics So Insane?” and when I was putting together the syllabus I went back and forth between thinking Robert Putnam’s book “Bowling Alone” was the most prescient book of the 2000s and thinking that distinction belonged to Bill Bishop’s 2008 book, “The Big Sort.”

“Bowling Alone” highlighted the collapse in communal activity in America and how that loss of connection is driving an immense amount of our national polarization and pain.

“The Big Sort” highlighted the fact that Americans were increasingly living in like-minded communities, and like-minded communities radicalize us. “Mixed company moderates,” Bishop wrote, “like-minded company polarizes. Heterogeneous communities restrain group excesses; homogeneous communities march toward the extremes.”

It’s not that moderates are always right and radicals are always wrong (abolitionism was once a radical idea), but a moderate temperament is more inclusive, more open to different ideas, and the more difficult the task (easing and hopefully erasing the lingering effects of hundreds of years of formal, legal racial oppression in the United States), the greater the need for different perspectives.

Even people who possess radical ideas should be open-minded enough to understand that their radical ideas might be wrong or that even good ideas can benefit from sharp critique.

Instead, monocultures narrow the frame. Required D.E.I. statements — in which prospective faculty members are forced to state their own views about diversity, equity and inclusion — are often used as ideological screening mechanisms. As Confessore reported, articulating even mainstream arguments in favor of de-emphasizing identity-based differences or creating a “level playing field” in admissions could be “career suicide” at Michigan.

The university’s vast D.E.I. bureaucracy seemed uninterested in one of the most critical aspects of diversity — the diversity of ideas. Michigan’s D.E.I. bureaucracy could even take issue with the idea that “students should be expected to encounter uncomfortable ideas.”

This is not a university-specific phenomenon. One of the most culturally significant institutions in the United States is the evangelical church, and many of its denominations are on their way to becoming as ideologically one-sided as the most progressive college campuses.

Ryan Burge, a scholar who studies religious trends in American life, recently observed that Southern Baptists were evenly split between Republicans and Democrats as recently as 2008. By 2022 the denomination was 75 percent Republican and only 21 percent Democratic. Voting data from 2020 indicates that other Protestant denominations are even more weighted toward the Republican Party.

Hidden behind numbers like that are countless stories of alienation and exclusion. There are family rifts and behind-the-scenes power struggles. All for the sake of purity and righteousness that religious fundamentalism perversely makes more elusive. The mysteries of God are too great to be contained within ever-narrowing human orthodoxies.

I’m inherently suspicious of the notion that simple ideas can solve complex problems, but what if a simple idea can help us embrace complexity? Intellectual diversity matters. Opening your mind to a wider range of perspectives is transformative. It doesn’t just protect the minority from the majority, it also helps protect the majority from itself, and the institutions that learn that lesson will be far more tolerant and successful than those that close their doors to opposing points of view.

No American faction — or party — has a monopoly on virtue or insight. For those of us who see diversity, equity and inclusion as good values, the answer is less for the right to beat the left or for the left to beat the right, but rather for the right to be open to the left, and the left to be open to the right.

If only it were as easy as it sounds.


10/20/24 09:02 AM #14512    

 

John Jackson

Mike - I’m so sorry to hear about your diagnosis. If the diagnosis is correct you seem to be in the very early stages - if it’s any consolation, I wouldn’t have guessed this was the problem you alluded to in a post a few days ago. I also know progress of the disease is highly variable. One of my employee’s husband was diagnosed 6 years ago with a very aggressive form of dementia (not Alzheimers - the name escapes me) which is typically fatal in 6-8 years and he’s still around and actually holding up quite well.


10/20/24 12:41 PM #14513    

 

David Mitchell

Mike,

Now I really need a Cliffs Notes!

 

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And that "network east of Watterson" was the two sections of Overbrook Drive which ran off of Cooke Rd. - the easterly one (reaching Indianola) which was my street address, although the houses were all accessed off of Yaronia Drive - the true culteral center of Western civilization. 

I recall a night when a certain classmate of mine, who was delivering me to my house, refused to enter my driveway, but would only drop me at the street in front of my house, claiming he was too "impaired" to back himself out of my long tree-lined driveway. This followed an evening of serious DEI discussion (er, sompin like dat) at a nearby "culteral shrine" known as the "Thirsty i ". He claimed he was suffereing from a condition of excesssive "PBR". My driveway allowed for 2 such doses, but he had received several more than that limit. 

 

 


10/20/24 12:43 PM #14514    

 

David Mitchell

Mike,

Now for a serious question.

Are you serious about your diagnosis?


10/20/24 01:05 PM #14515    

Timothy Lavelle

Mike,

No platitudes apply. Sorry for this news.

You keep writing, as long and as often...we'll keep reading likewise.


10/20/24 01:23 PM #14516    

 

Michael McLeod

That's not something I would joke about Dave.

I hesitated to share it here. And now I'm worrying about it. I don't want to overshadow,  and shadow is sure a relevant image, the fun that comes of checking in with each other be it for argumentation or events or sentimental journeys through shady Columbus enclaves of yore.

But in all honesty I'll need all the support I can get.

And thanks, John & all.

The thing I hate the most is the imposition and effect on people I love. 

As you probably know and as Jim can testify there are drugs to delay but no cure in sight for years, more likely decades, and even at that nobody's placing bets - I don't understand the science involved but I sure don't see any glimmers from what I have read. I can think of a hell of a lot of other illnesses I'd swap for in a heartbeat.

Oh, and back to John:

I have always been absent minded so I never suspected. But I have an acute girlfriend who did. Memory -- loss of memory, both short term and long, and significant evenTs among them  -- was what she noticed. She took me to the doc who referred me to the neurologist who looked at images and gave me the news and a pill that assists a bit. 

It does suck and it does appeal to me somewhat to share with you all because it touches you a bit more remotely. Again - I just hate to share it because it's so horrible, but on the other hand I'm, well, not to put to fine a point on it, pretty damn devastated and needy right now. But on the other hand I don't want to be a drag. Please be forthright about it if I am or if I do. Be a drag I mean. And I'm not referring to cross dressing. 

 


10/20/24 02:54 PM #14517    

 

Sheila McCarthy (Gardner)

Mike: With your gift for words, I hope you're going to do what you always do... You'll write about it, we'll read it (and check ourselves for similarities), and we will cheer you on... 


10/20/24 02:58 PM #14518    

 

Michael McLeod

Thank you Tim, and right you are, Donna, thank you. So glad you brought up the love of my life.  I could well be wrong but I don't recall having spoken much here of Denise, the brilliant, up-by-her-bootstraps, Pennsylvania-born elementary school teacher who has taught me a thing or two over the past ten years. 

I absolutely appreciate the companionship and comfort and wisdom she has provided, and of course there are tears in my eyes as I write that.

I may occasionally mention my progress and some of the dillemmas that an illness like this presents. It truly is a comfort to share, just knowing you guys care means so much. I do not want to overshadow the many other subjects and points of view that populate this forum so I'll keep myself in check and post sparingly. But the subject is clearly of interest to our age group so you are, as we say in the trade, a target audience.

Along those lines I can report that it isn't utterly hopeless. There are things that you can do if you don't have this disease in order to prevent it, and things that can be done once you realize that you have it to slow its progress, and there is some assistance along those lines in the form of drugs, orally taken, that slow the already slow but inexorible progress of the disease. Injections are available if you are diagnosed early enough and they, too, slow the progress of the disease.

Back to what you can do, one tip right off hand is that exercising your body is good for your brain. That old slogan about a healthy mind and a healthy body was well taken.

As you can imagine I have developed a sudden interest in altzheimer research and I'll likely boil it down and share it here on occasion but don't hold your breath. Though he has kindly offered to communicate to me privately about this. the doctor in the house may chip in if he so desires and I'd be wise to leave the science of that subject to him from this point on. Bottom line as I understand it is that at this point there are drugs that slow down the processes and symptoms and disruption of brain cell functions characterized by the disease and of course I'm hugely and let's face it desperately interested in avenues that could turn up a cure -- something, or perhaps a combination of somethings, dear lord please, that could not just slow the degradation and more accurately loss of brain cells, but stop the process.

Thank you Joe and Dave as well, just saw your posts. 

 


10/21/24 09:28 AM #14519    

 

Donna Kelley (Velazquez)

Mike, like the others I am really sorry to hear of your news.

Keep writing, keep swimming and keep your wonderful support team which includes Denise, your family and your huge family of friends (many of them right here).


10/21/24 10:30 AM #14520    

Joseph Gentilini

Mike, just wanted to add to the comments of the others regarding your diagnosis.  Yes, it sucks but sometimes like gives us crap and we live with it. Two of my aunts had it, but their spouses and/or kids helped out. I'll keep you in my thoughts and prayers.  Peace, joe


10/21/24 01:15 PM #14521    

 

David Mitchell

Mike,

Thanks for including us in your journey. We are with you!

 

p.s. I forgive you for trying to pour your milk shake on my head in the cafeteria - sort of.

 


10/21/24 11:09 PM #14522    

 

Michael McLeod

Forgot: Berries. Eat lots of them. They are rich in antioxidents. Good for brain health.


10/22/24 09:38 AM #14523    

 

John Jackson

Mike, following Dave’s lead, I forgive you for all your transgressions, especially your recent unkind comments about my senior picture.  So please know that all is forgiven.  But did I ever tell you that, given your senior picture, I had you pegged not as a journalist/newspaperman/college prof but as a used car salesman?


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