David Mitchell
Mike,
As for your post just prior to this one, I am in perfect agreement with theyoung lady,
"yack yack. yack yack, yack yack". But she says it so well.
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As for your last post, I have had a somehwat simmilar experience, except that I became very conscious of it many years ago, and made a greater effort to have more "deep" conversations with several male best buddies.
Yeas ago, I read a book called (I think) "Men and Friendship", written by a woman author (forgt her name)
She comments on how men draw further inward after they leaveteh social world of their schooling, Many are able to prolog it by joining fraternities, the military, or social clubs (fishing, woodworking, golf, etc.)
It is an intersting part of our Marked Men for Christ retreats, because one of the core isues we deal with is this very asme principle, which I call the "I Got This" syndrome - I am a guy. I am strong and tough. I don't need any help. I got this. We invite men to acknowledge this and allow themselves to open up to their brothers and accept our common weakness. Somewhere through our 44 hour weekends, you see guys discovering the idea, "Oh My Gosh, I'm not alone. I'm not the only guy with a problem. We're all in this together - we are all brothers - flawed and imperfect!
It's pretty exciting to go through one of our weeked retreats and see this change come over guys.
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Speaking of "imperfection",,,,,,,it's about this food...... absolutely abysmal.
If I didn't ave neighbors and church friends bringng me snacks (powdered doughnuts and pretzels) I might have expired by now. I think I have lost 18 pounds lying in this god awful hspital bed.
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