David Mitchell
Mike's question about what one thing we learned is a tough one. We learned a lot of stuff, both from the "text" and from our surroundings in general. I struggle to come up with one single thing. I had to learn to hide my crippling shyness and my inadequcies (reading comp.) and, just keep up. By all means, child, don't fall behind and don't let anybody know you are weak, worried, or frightened.
Yes, I loved History in Mr. Mannion's class - even though I struggled so badly with reading comprehension. Once I tried to fake my way through a book report on Charlemaigne (from a college text I bought at Long's down on campus) and he saw right through me. I couldn't have read that book in 9 lifetimes and he knew it. But he was a fine person and a very good teacher. (I loved good stories, and History is full of them - I just prefered to have my dad read them to me as a kid or watch them on TV)
But I think I have to give my gold star (if there are any left from Nina's stache) to Sister Constantious. She, more than anyone at the time (Father Grimes included) pushed me - but in a positive way. English and all those novels (and the class play) went against my grain because of all that reading and memorization. But she challenged me relentlessly. She would catch me outside the classroom and back me up against the locker and get right up in my grill (if that's possilbe for a woman a foot shorter). And she'd say stuff like, "I'm disappointed in you!" - or "You can do better that THIS!", or "who do you think you're fooling, this isn't your best work", and with that stern (but somehow trusting) look, wave my test paper or my composition in my face. She made it seem like she knew me personally, and that she really cared. I'm sure they all cared, but when it came from her it really got to me.
Honorable mention to Sssssissster Norbertine - God love her! And a shout out to Sister Frederick, a good scout and a calming influence.
But the most important thing I learned, I just didn't realize until last fall at the reunion and on this subsequent forum. We lived in a golden age, and now - "WE ARE FAM-IL-EE". ----- It's nice to belong to somebody.
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