Timothy Lavelle
This forum...a funny place. I wonder if some of you really understand "the funny".
When I was a smoker (cigarettes) for about 40 years, I was occasionally boggled to run into someone who could have one or two cigarettes a day or others who could smoke whenever they wanted to without catching a habit. And a habit is honestly something you cannot control unless you are willing to strangle a part of your own self to be rid of it...and the strangulation takes awhile. Addiction honestly does suck.
"The Funny": Some of you can write here...or not write...it doesn't really matter to you. Maybe you are shy. Or, maybe the forum is not a big enough platform or just too homespun. Maybe you are afraid of making a mistake...being opposed...sounding dumb in front of old mates. For whatever the reason, you are able to read a few posts and then turn to some other endeavor without making your thoughts known.
For some, and I am surely one, blabbing here is addictive. It might be age, like running out of time to tell our thoughts, or ego, thinking you the reader should know my thoughts "right the eff now" or even friendship, not wanting you to listen to someone else who I think is crazy. Or, g-forbid, even low humor. But for whatever reason, it is truly hard, like right this moment, not to pour forth. If you are not caught in this addiction, what I am saying to you now makes zero sense. But those three or four gentlemen who write the most know exactly what I'm talking about.
When John and Mike mentioned taking a break from the forum I admit I laughed to myself. Because of "The Funny". I have quit the forum multiple times and the need to have my say has always brought me back. The addiction is the funny.
So, if anyone decides to step away for awhile, even a day, try to support them. You can do that in the very best way. If someone writes something you find even a little interesting, DON'T WAIT...before one of us addicted souls tries to be the very first to take over the conversation, SAY SOMETHING.
Volunteer your thoughts here. For me, there is nothing more fun (re the forum) than seeing someone who hasn't written in awhile spill their guts about something. Great stuff.
So here's a start for you. I'm off for 90 days. Let the strangulation begin!
SPEAK UP.
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