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08/28/18 11:31 AM #3890    

 

Daniel Cody

So very sorry for your family’s loss.


08/28/18 12:10 PM #3891    

 

Mark Schweickart

Frank -- I am going to go out on a limb here and risk sounding a little too nosy instead of sympathetic, but I assure you that is not my intention. Would you mind clarifying for those of us who do not know your family, who it was that unfortunately passed?  From your post it is appears that perhaps she had downs syndrom, but when you mention that your "own sainted mother needed a baby to rock"  it left me wondering if she was your sister, or your daughter, or perhaps a grand daughter?  Obviously it was someone near and dear to you and your family, so clearly it doesn't really matter what the relation was, but one cannot help but wonder. Please know my heart goes out to you and yours. I hope you don't mind the question.


08/28/18 01:12 PM #3892    

 

Alan Standish

Frank-  so very sorry to hear of your loss.  Nothing is quite as heartbreaking as losing a child before their time.  We're all thinking of you and your family and you're not alone in your grief.  May the souls of the faithful departed rest in peace.   Al


08/28/18 01:39 PM #3893    

 

Mary Ann Nolan (Thomas)

Frank and Deb,

Please know that Jeff and I send our love and condolences to the whole family . We know she will always have a place in your hearts.

How is your daughter and her husband doing in this most difficult time? It is nice that they are so close to you all both geographically and spiritually.

Sincerely,

With love,

Mary Ann and Jeff

 

 

 

 


08/28/18 02:23 PM #3894    

Joseph Gentilini

I have not been keeping up with all the messages being left - I read many of them and just listen and read.  Probably not much of an excuse, but so-be-it.

Now, saying all of this, I send my condolences to Frank on the death in his family.  Sorry.

 

Peace, Joe G

 


08/28/18 03:11 PM #3895    

 

John Jackson

Frank, let me add my condolences to all the others above.  It must be so hard for you - nothing is sadder than the loss of an innocent child.    


08/28/18 03:45 PM #3896    

 

Bill Reid

Frank, I am so sorry to hear of Zarina Abigale's death. When my mom died, Msgr. Grimes said something at the Funeral Mass that has given me much comfort over the years; perhaps it will help you also. Here's what he said, paraphrased a bit: "When Zarina was born, she was crying -- and everyone around her was happy. Now she rests in God's hands and is perfectly happy, and everyone around her is crying." May she rest in eternal peace.

 

 


08/28/18 05:45 PM #3897    

 

Jeanine Eilers (Decker)

So sorry, Frank.  She was lucky to have you for a grandpa.


08/29/18 12:30 AM #3898    

 

Mark Schweickart

Frank -- From other comments posted I now realize that Zarina was your grand-daughter, so no need to answer my previous query. Sorry for being slow on the uptake that everyone else seemed to understand. 

Speaking of understanding, obviously it is at times like this when we are put to the test about what we believe, or don't believe, and why. Being the music guy that you are, I wonder if you are a fan of the band, Dawes – more specifically their song Just a Little Bit of Everything? I was very impressed with this when I heard it, oh I don't know, maybe five years ago now. It is not often that one hears a song that takes you in slowly and makes you contemplate the various highs and lows of existence and then tries to offer a gentle, sympathetic, undogmatic point of view the way this song does. I did a cover of this that might appeal to you  as you contemplate things these days, as you no doubt are doing. The song doesn't go to the obvious choices involving religious perspectives, but I think it has, especially in the way it wraps things up in the final verse, a very soothing effect on the listener. For me anyway, I feel it leaves us listeners collectively scratching our heads and staring out at the mysterious way the world is, as the song says, in "all its sadness and delight."

I was just working on this song, adding visuals to it the last few days, so you caught me in a rather philosophical mood with this news of your grandaughter's passing. I hope this song does not strike a false or inappropriate chord for you. I don't think it will because it embraces life's complexities quite well, I think. If you already know this song, I hope you don't mind the way I added to the lyrics, and I hope it ends by producing a welcoming sigh that you no doubt could use.




08/29/18 10:31 AM #3899    

 

Kathleen Wintering (Nagy)

Frank, Add my condolences to all the rest. I have a little grandaughter, almost a year and I know how much we love her. What a terrible loss. Kathy Wintering


08/29/18 11:34 AM #3900    

 

Sheila McCarthy (Gardner)

Frank, so sorry for your family's devastating loss. 


08/29/18 04:17 PM #3901    

 

Deborah Alexander (Rogers)

Frank, I am keeping you and your family in my prayers.  I pray that Our Lord will comfort you at this time.  I'm so sorry for your loss.


08/30/18 01:54 PM #3902    

 

Michael DeTemple

Dear Frank,

I am very sorry to hear about the death of your granddaughter.  Your message revealed your faith and your belief that she is now in heaven, enjoying the fullness of life and love.  Please be assured of my prayers for you and all your family in this very sad time.  May the Lord comfort you with his love and grace.  

Mike DeTemple


08/30/18 04:34 PM #3903    

 

Linda Weiner (Bennett)

Grandpa Frank,  

My sincere condolences on the loss of Zarina. May you and your family be comforted by the vision of Zarina wrapped our loving Lord’s arms welcoming her into Paradise. Ya’all are added to my Rosary intentions. God keep you and comfort you.

Weiner

 


08/31/18 02:43 PM #3904    

 

James Hamilton, M. D.

Winter is Approaching ... Fast!

 

Labor Day weekend, the unofficial end of summer, is upon us. Lots of things are happening across the country including here in Colorado. Our State Fair is on in Pueblo, this is Parents' Weekend at the Air Force Academy and AFA plays Stony Brook University (really!) in their opening football game at Falcon Stadium tomorrow. The Labor Day Balloon Classic has lift-offs planned Saturday through Monday with some "balloon glows" on one evening.

This is predicted to be an El Niño winter, some say a mild one, some say severe. No one knows for sure. The Farmer's Almanac predicts a colder than normal winter for much of the USA but the Old Farmer's Almanac (a different publication) disagrees. Colorado sits in an area between where the Jet Stream is supposed to fall and El Niño flow is to occur. Small changes in these two could make the difference in this state.

My prediction is that we will have more snow and a colder than usual winter. I base this on the aspens changing earlier (some have already begun to do so), the fawns losing their spots, have quit nursing and are eating a higher calorie diet (grasses, bushes, acorns from scrub oaks) sooner and thus growing faster (see photo below) and the fact that the western slopes of the Colorado Rockies have already seen their first snow.

Last year I photographed aspens along some of the passes (Kenosha, Guanella) just south of I-70 on 22 September and found them to be at peak color change. I suspect that this year that peak change will occur 1-2 weeks earlier and I shall check with the various National Forest Service offices to see when and where the best places will be. I don't want to put a couple of hundred miles of driving around backroads just to come back with pictures of green forests or bare tree trunks! The "window" is very narrow for these changes so I'll take all the help I can get.

Happy Labor Day,

Jim

 

 


08/31/18 10:19 PM #3905    

 

Mark Schweickart

Speaking as someone on the West Coast, I would certainly welcome an El Nino winter. We could use all the snow and rain we can get to offset all of the heat and wild fires from this summer. 


09/01/18 04:28 PM #3906    

 

Michael McLeod

All those biological clues about whether or not we are going to have a crazy season coming our way is over my head.

Dammit, Jim, I'm a writer, not a doctor!


09/01/18 04:52 PM #3907    

 

David Mitchell

A few random stories about John McCain

1) Naval Acadamy.

I heard a story years ago that I cannot seem to validate in my research, but my source was a pretty good one. The Naval Acadamy has many long traditions, one of which is an annual boxing tournament among the "Mid-shipmen". Acccording to this story John McCain made it to quarter or semi-finals in the tournament. He was finally beaten after being knocked down repeatedly. He simply refused to stay down and kept getting back up and kept gettting knocked down, over and over again. The guy he faced was taller, and therefore had longer "reach" as they say in boxing. That same guy went on to win the finals, beating one Jim Webb, another stubborn opponent, who's name we also heard later. The guy who beat these two was one Oliver North. (see correction on next post)

 

2) The Forrestal Incident. 

I have heard this argued back and forth for years. His plane released a bomb that exploded on the crowded carrier deck and caused numerous secondary explosions. The resulting fire killed about 130 men in the mess that ensued. He has been accused of doing this deliberately, but I find that to be so ridicluous that it almost doesn't deserve mentioning. There is even video (black and white - taken from the Bridge cameras) of him jumping out of his cockpit and rolling across the deck engulfed in flames. 

 Deliberate? I think not. He was stubborn - not criminally insane.   

(note:  added later - tragic accidents happen all the time in the military - especially during combat. Some happen in more volitale circumstances - like a crowded carrier deck. Some happen in a far off make-shift runway in an unknown part of nowhere, when only a handful of guys are standing around. I was witness to about six or seven of the most bizarre accidents that cost about a dozen lives - actually just on the ground, not while flying the mission - (well, one which I related to some of you a while back) through human error. Accidents so awful you would shake your head and say that could never have happened. But in McCain's case, it happend on a very crowded carrier deck full of bomb laden planes all spaced close together. Similar causes - but very different results!)

 

3) North Viet Nam Prison ( a "loser who was captured")

Of course, one of the most interesting chapters in McCain's life was his time in prison at the old French "Hoa Lo" Prison ("wha low" - Vietnamese name for a French term meaning "firey furnace", or "hell hole") - which our men came to refer to as the "Hanoi Hilton". (note: even in times of suffering and desperation, always an American joke, or wise crack). And with that story always comes the attatched story of Hanoi Jane's (almost forgotten?) visit to North Viet Nam to accuse all of the prisoners of being "War Criminals" and calling for them to be put on trial. Her visit was apparetnly arranged by one vociferous anti-war American named David Ifshin, who visited Hanoi several times to pronounce his opposition to our war efforts and his solidarity with the North Vietnamese. He was nicknamed "Hanoi Rose" by American troops who heard some of his broadcasts from Hanoi.

As the story goes (I first heard this years ago - and there is precious little documention on the internet) They came to know one another after our prisoners were returned and the War ended. They argued publicly but then ironicaly came together to work on a committe for the benefit of the war torn country and it's poor citizens. Apparently there was a moment when Ifshin saw McCain in person and decided to go up to him and apologize. As he did so, McCain beat him to the punch (to coin a phrase) and turned and apologized to Ifshin first. Long story short - I even read somewhere that McCain gave a eulogy at Ifhsin's funeral. This story has been used both for and against McCain by his allies and detractors for years. Make what you will of it.

 

4) The first campaign in 2000. Many of you will recall how the Bush group went into the New Hampshire primary knowing that this election was their god-given birthright and a foregone conclusion. 

But whoops! John McCain's people did not get the memo and they won New Hampshire!  Desperate to get things back to where they were supposed to be, the Bush people launched what has to be one of the most disgraceful campaign tactics in the history of American politics. They quickly formed teams of local phone banks to call all of South Carolina to "remind" them of several things. a) that McCain had an illegitimate black child by another woman (Bridget, a child theyy adopted from one of Mother Theresa's orphanages in Bangladesh), b) That his wife was a drug addict (Cindy had already admitted to recovery from addiction to pain medication), and c) that he was a "Songbird" while in prison, and had "collaberated" with the Enemy and had given away critical information to his captors to avoid the plight of his fellow captives. (Note: He and numerous others eventually broke under the pressure of torture and did give some infomation to the North Vietnamese - but very little of any consequence. In fact, he refused more than once to accept his release - without having to sign the confession - because he knew he would be betraying his fellow prisoners). 

When I moved down here in 2002, I was at a party and introduced to a friend of my hosts who was an older man, well known in the community, who told me he was a part of that committee to get those phone calls out and was "proud to do it for my (his) country"  to stop McCain. I was stupified!  (Welcome back to the South, Dave.)    

I recently ended a rather nasty Facebook arguement (with a total stranger - and a "Veteran", so he said) who insists that McCain was a "songbird", and did collaberate wtih the enemy, and was charged by Nixon as a "war criminal" and sentenced to death - then later pardoned by Nixon. I am still unable to grasp this kind of ignorance. Interstingly, it seems to have really taken hold here in South Carolina.

 

5) McCain - Feingold (2002)

Always the contrarian, McCain attempted to change the way Congress does business, by linking up with Liberal Senator Russ Feingold of Wisconsin to introduce a bill to limit and control campaign funding (whcih I believe is one of the root causes of our completely broken political system (my own words). It was the "Bi-partisan Campaign Reform Act" (2002). Unfortunately, it was a poorly written bill, but also quite distasteful to many on both sides of the aisle in Congress. It would logically have slowed their "gravy train" - an idea that even drew threats of lawsuits from one Mitch McConnell of the "Commonwealth" of Kentucky. Not only did the bill fail, but if I recall corrrectly, both Senators were promptly taken out behind their respective party's "woodsheds" for a good ol'e fashioned whoopin'. McCain stated many times that (quoting from memory?) "If we can't fix this, we won't be able to fix any of the problems we have in Congress". I couldn't gree more! 

But oddly, to his death, McCain remained a recipent of truckloads of donations from some very large and powerful lobbies, one of which was the NRA. This bothers me a great deal, even though I revere the man for that certain heroic part of his service. 

John McCain was truly a complex, stubborn, different kind of man.

I'd take a few more of his kind if you please.


09/01/18 06:49 PM #3908    

Timothy Lavelle

Dave, I like this report of yours but I am biased. I'm sure there are readers that think poorly of McCain whether for political or "because he was a hawk" .or other reasons. 

I truly hate war; despised our time in VN. But...I have always admired people "who came to play"...no matter the circumstances. Our military does not declare war...they just go an do amidst the threat of coming home in a bag. The military does not ponder, does not consider merit or right. They are a national weapon used, supposedly, when diplomacy fails. McCain went and DID. None of us want war but if we are commited to it, thank the powers that be that some people rise to the occasion.

I did check...North and McCain were not at the Academy at the same time. Might be a false rumor about that scrap in the boxing ring. I still can't stand the sight of Jain the Pain. Thanks for taking the time to put those thoughts on paper.   


09/01/18 06:56 PM #3909    

 

David Mitchell

Thanks Tim. I stand corrected. I suspect these are two separate stories of two different times at the Acadamy. But i am sure Ollie did beat Webb in a match. Webb was himself a different sort of guy.

 

 

 


09/01/18 07:31 PM #3910    

 

David Mitchell

P.s. A real "squeaker" in Columbus today!

Still pissed off at the cowardly Board of "TRUSTEES".


09/01/18 09:34 PM #3911    

 

David Mitchell

In other news,,,,,,,Boise State squeaketh by Troy 56 - 20.

How many of you were watching that one with "bated" breath? And how many were watching with "baited" breath?  

Oh hey, check out the video highlights from the "shoe"  today. A cloudburst and a 1:15 rain delay. The water is literally running down the stadium steps inches deep!


09/01/18 10:43 PM #3912    

 

James Hamilton, M. D.

Mike,

Believe it or not, you writers and we biological science folks have a lot in common (not necessarily politically speaking)!

Writers interview people and write about them, their stories and their view of the world and BioSci people interview (by observing) flora and fauna which tell us their stories and what is happening and going to happen in the world. For instance, hunger trumps a rainy day:

Now there's a story where a picture is worth a thousand words!

Jim

 

 

 


09/02/18 02:14 AM #3913    

 

Michael McLeod

JIM: Well I guess it was a stretch but I was playing off a recurring line in the first Star Trek series that became a meme before the word "meme" was invented.

The doctor in the crew of the Enterprise, played by Deforest Kelley, would always get frustrated with James Kirk, the commander of the spaceship, played by, of course, Willima Shatner.

And when they ran up into a situation he couldn't figure out he'd say:

"Dammit, Jim, I'm a doctor, not a (fill in the blank)."

So I was hoping somebody would catch my reverse-image version of the pop culture reference.

Which I guess nobody did.

 

Dave: I'm cutting the osu board slack. More I look at the situation to murkier it appears to be. I've revised my own thinking about this thing. I believe what they did was a good call under the circumstances. And I ran into an interview with a guy who was in the hanoi hilton with mccain and drew inspiration from his presence and fortitude there when they were knee deep in - well, in the hanoi hilton. So I'll take that man's word over anybody's. 

 

 


09/02/18 03:20 AM #3914    

 

James Hamilton, M. D.

Wow, Mike, that line from "Bones" went right over my head - and at warp speed! Next time maybe you should communicate via a Vulcan "mind meld".

Jim

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