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David Mitchell
Mark,
I was blessed with parents who were both great storytellers - and both had lives full of stories to tell. Mom moved 6 times before 8th grade and lived twice on the wild frontier of Minot, North Dakota in the teens and again in the 20's. They had Indians, Cowboys, Gypsies, and Rum-Runners. Dad grew up a little "street tough" on 10th or 11th Ave in those same years. They either read to me (Mom - nursurey rymes "Tall Book of Make Believe", etc., and later, Dad read Dickens, Twain, Lewis-Stevenson, etc.), or told me wonderful stories of a childhoods I could only dream of. But it may have been Dad's Air Force (excuse me, "Army Air Corps" in those days) reunions that left me with so much of my WW2 "imprint".
Dad came to a realization about 8 years after the War that many of his old buddies were in a pattern of some form of depression - heavy or light - but noticeable effects of frustration and suppression. He made a medical decision to form some casual get-togethers, to get the guys to share and hopefuly release, some of their anxiety. (We would call it sort of an unstrucuted "group therapy" now). This led to a full blown annual reunion. These were held in differet cities around the country for 4 day weekends every summer, starting in about 1956. He took me along in 1957 and almost every year after that. I grew up with my other little reunion buddies (especailly one Joey Pakracka from Indiana). Every second night, they would gather (men only) in a large room with a couple if "slide projectors" (remember those?) and fill the room with pictures, stories, memories, laughter, a few tears, some periods of pregnant silence,,,, and cigar smoke. Joey and I would sit in the back of the room and listen to their stories - many of the same ones year after year. We loved it and got a wonderful bit of history straight from the source.
Added later: I think that may have been the seed that was planted in me to form that reunion I held four years ago. One of the most enjoyable (and cathartic) activities in my recent life. And we think it may have helped one of our guys avoid something regrettable. He is now in contact with most of us and living a happier life.
*I absolutely reccomend Veterans to re-connect with some - any - old buddies and let some form of shared memories take place. Keeping it all bottled up inside is NOT working!
Which brings me to another point. I can't help thinking there are so many more good stories from this class that would be fun to hear on this forum. Linda's story and photos about her Dad's Country Western Band is still one of the gems of this Forum. And Tim's "Big Sally" story. Aren't there more of those out there?
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Mike,
Wow, I think you are "Dead On" to coin a phrase. Your Dad would likely have been one of at least a half million American soldiers sacrificed in that "final invasion" of the Home Islands.
On a lighter note: I for one am tickled that he didn't - otherwise I could never have had the priviledge of witnessing you attempting to demonstrate the thickness of our cafeteria milk shakes, by holding one upside down over your head.
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