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Mary Margaret Clark (Schultheis)
This message showed up in my Facebook feed the other day and so I am sharing it with all of you classmates as we all have, by now, experienced our own personal trials and sorrows.
Dear Love Being Catholic Friends,
I just realized that this month I am officially 20 years cancer free! This is the first year that I didn't think about the anniversary date of July 8th - but that's a good thing! No more counting!
I know that many of you on this page have experienced a lot of suffering. My cancer, though I was young, wasn't anything compared to what many of you have gone through - either with your own suffering or through that of your loved ones. Though sometimes life can seem unbearable, try to remember that there IS meaning in suffering, though we may never fully understand the meaning of it during our lifetime. Going through pain ourselves, or seeing our loved ones suffer can be heart-wrenching. It doesn't matter if your suffering is physical, spiritual, emotional, or financial. It all hurts and can leave you feeling hopeless and in despair.
Regardless of what kind of suffering it is, we will all suffer at some point during our lifetime. Watching a loved one die, like our Blessed Mother did at the foot of the cross, is a pain like no other. Though Jesus on the cross and His mother at the foot of His cross suffered greatly, they trusted in God's love and eternal plan. Try to have total, confident abandonment to the Will of God, and trust in Him completely.God always brings good out of suffering – even if it means because of what you are going through, someone else is praying more, loving more or turning back to God. Remember, God is outside of time, and His love for us is eternal. There would be no Easter, without Good Friday. No resurrection without the crucifixion.
God heals us eternally, but this doesn't mean we won't suffer greatly, some tragically more than others, while on this earth.
Sometimes when we experience suffering it is a big wake up call that reminds us that we are all on this earth for a relatively short time. You never know when your life or a loved one's life will end. The cancer I experienced at a young age was unexpected, yet the graces, prayers and love that came from it were unforgettable.
Suffering reminds us how much we need God, and how often we are not in control. It reminds us how we need to give God more attention, love Him, and love one another more. It reminds us we need to forgive more, pray more, listen more, talk less, get off our phones and computers and be really present in each others lives. Suffering can make us more compassionate and sympathetic to others, with a greater capacity to love. Spend time, not money on the people you love. Life is beautiful but way too short to spend it on things that don't matter.
Embrace your crosses when they come your way. Unite them with Jesus and our Blessed Mother and know that though things may seem unbearable at times, life is still beautiful and that Jesus and our Blessed Mother have also walked this path. Life does go on and so many times does get better. Never forget that God is good and has a plan.

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