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Michael McLeod
a virtual bear hug to all, along with my regrets for not flying up to the reunion.
we are all, all of us so fortunate to have had the good fortune to share that spendid time and place and overall orientation to this splendid, challenging, mysterious, beautiful existence we were born into. Let's make the most of it in the time we have left. I made a decision just recently to prioritize the needs of others around me, particularly those that I love, in the time that I have left. Feel rather humbled and selfish and clueless that I haven't thought to do that, and take it very seriously, before. Basically I took a look in the mirror and called myself a selfish prick. Not entirely but enough of one to have deserved a pointed talking-to. We'll see what I can do from here on out with the insights the moment provided. Yeah I know this is a bit more, what, personal and self-revealing than my usual posts. Just be grateful that I didn't get drunk and and blubber it all out at the reunion, eeuu!
I really am serious about it, though, and a bit shamefaced that it's just now occurring to me. When I was writing for the Orlando Sentinel I had a weekly column about men and men's issues - it came out one day of the week, and a woman who was a colleague of mine in the features department had a column about women and women's issue on another day of the week. I learned a lot talking to various experts when I had that column, and looking back now I wish I had gone on the develop more expertise in gender studies.
Obviously, even in retirement, that part of my writing career has left an imprint, hopefully a good one, on me and the way I approach my own life and my own relationships.
OK long-winded post over and thanks for listening.
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